We value things more when they are not with us, its not chicks, its with anything in the whole world and its the fact…..digest it or creep it all ur wish……

One of my mentors Jack Canfield, the author of The Chicken Soup For The Soul Series, and his The Success Principles. He was also in The Secret. You can listen to Free mp3s about his philosophy at http://www.thebigwhitebook.com

The only 2 people that can change any thing about your relationship are you and your partner. Normally everyones knows about your problem except for the two that van do anything about it. That means, we your readers, know, your mom, knows, your aunt knows.

It’s normal to ask others for advice, but only the 2 of you and agree to a solution.

Jack says, if you were to talk with your partner and ask the question. ” If you were to rate our relationship on a scale of 1 to 10, and ten being the best what would you rate our relationship?

And your partner rated your relationship less than a 10.

Your response is ” What must I do to make it a 10.

His answer would be for examlpe.

* Surpise me for lunch
* Wear a different hairstyle
* Be creative and wake me up in the am with hot wet kisses from head to toe
* Flirt with me more

Theses are only examples, and you say great, and put forth and effort to make it happen. Hopefully he was honest and now you are satisfying what he wanted all along.

Now it’s your turn.

Your answer would be for example.

* Remove The women on your phone
* Remove the women from your screen saver
* Remove the women from your mind

If you are the one he for him and he you, then agreements will be made and your relationship can grow and prosper.

If you are and he are not the one you will eventually go your separate ways, good penis or not.

John Gray wrote Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus.

I have found that when I cannot find the answers and make the right chioces I read about the successful failures that became success stories in the books that they have written.

If there are women that you have seen in your life time, that you really admire, why not model the positives that you like to become who you really want to be.

After you are ok with whom you have become from the people you have met and the books that you have read you now can accept you for you and him for him.

I wish you the best and would love to hear your feedback.

PS: This is my interpretation of how I understood the principals and philosophies of Jack Canfied and John Gray.

Dallas

Anyway, maybe you should talk to him about it or give a joking hint. Saying things like, “Hey I’m hot too!” Or something playfully. Just saying. I still say internet is better than checking up on women in real life.

As much as we’d love for guys to be mind-readers they just aren’t.

I think if he KNEW that it was bothering you and still didn’t do anything to help the situation, then he’s a prick, but until then you can’t fault him b/c he probably has no idea how you feel.

And on a personal note, I’d rather a guy look at girls on the computer or whatever than at himself ALL the time. Sounds weird, but the last guy I dated was WAY into himself.

Bleh.

You just need to talk to him about it. Tell him that you don’t mind that he mentions girls who are attractive, but that you also want to feel like he finds you attractive. If he says, “But we have sex all the time”, explain that you just need him to take the time occasionally to say the words using his mouth not his actions.

Well, hm, I guess I vary on the subject a bit. Would I want that many reminders of hot girls around my residence if I lived with my man? No way. I’d feel uncomfortable, and he should understand that. However, if my guy checks out a girl while we’re at the bar or something, it doesn’t much bother me.

It’d be unnatural if we weren’t both physically attracted to other people. And he’s with me, so I tend to not worry. If I catch him looking, I look at her, too, and say “damn, did you see her boobs?” or “she’s really not that great looking.”

But if he’s not complimenting you, yet looking at other ladies, it’s def a no no. Say something. Maybe he doesn’t know how you feel about it, and maybe he’d be more understanding if he actually did.

I wonder if the pictures would bother you if you were getting the emotional connection you expect in the first place?

But remember that you can’t make anyone other than yourself change.

You seem like a wonderful woman that deserves to be in a healthy relationship and receive love that is positive. I hope that he is empathetic to your feelings and it works out.